In Lent we explore our response to God's love for us as expressed in Jesus. Jesus died for us as he maintained his covenantal relationship with God.
We too, with our Baptism and confirmation made a covenantal relationship with God through Jesus. We live out the Rainbow Covenant that God made with Noah though our lives. we can easily break our desire to love by careless words and actions.
We can't blame others. As adults we take responsibility, confess our error and make amends.
Lent is a time to reflect, make a decision to act in love, make amends and carry on as a person of God. Take time this Lent to pause, mindfully reflect and then act in a reconciling manner.